How to order that our children can grow according to our expectations:

See you again with me in the title the way for our children to grow in accordance with our expectations.

It is an unwritten law, that every positive-minded parents who expect children to the front of his future would be consistent with our expectations, a person who can be proud of, a person who succeeded in his dream dreams, to be honorable, to be someone who can bring substantial benefits to the people around him. No exception even if the parents are evil, he must expect their children will grow up to be people who have the achievement.

While we all already know, that the environment influences the child at the present time, very seriously alarmed us as parents. Environmental influences have a huge impact on a child's psychological development, which will eventually form a pattern of thought and action in the association of children daily basis.

So, how to keep our children can grow in accordance with our expectations while the 'influence of the house' and 'environmental impact' has a very big role.

Here are some ways for our children to grow according to our expectations:

1. before a child is more familiar with the outside environment, early education should cultivate as a fortress, so that our children have a strong attitude and stance. Instill values of honesty, discipline, respect for others, happy to help, and some knowledge that could enable it to differentiate between good and bad, which is useful and the useless, which ones do and which ones to avoid, etc..
2. make the relationships within the family is always harmonious, harmonious whole household. Make the most of Facebook in the house there are no quarrels, no tension. The house is serene and peaceful making occupants can think clearly. All problems can be resolved in the best of it. And the serene and peaceful home can make the occupants desire to come together again.
3. establishes an emotional connection with young children, is not hard to make our children like us. Not with money or goods only, but the most important is the emotional connection. Sincere affection can be felt by the child. Whatever the condition of a parent with a child should never yell loud and harsh words let alone beat him, remember that the word parent to child is a prayer for her son, and beating of children not going to sour a child, which happened on the contrary, the child will be embedded vengeance against parents . But when the parents approach with a loving approach, sooner or later the child will feel all that. He will 'come back' at any time.
4. when the emotional connection is made, it will be easier to provide education and teaching children. The two words the child will quickly understand.
5. Next, give children some understanding of the situation out there, the state of the environment out there that might bring bad impact for your children. Give understanding as necessary without too make a child afraid of the state of the environment out there.
6. the fact that children sometimes occurs almost close / do something that makes parents worry, there's no harm in giving kids a chance to get closer to the things that parents worry about it as a lesson for him, so he could make up his mind. However, parents must remain vigilant, if too concerned should immediately take action.
7. circumstances outside is not always a negative impact, it is only slightly when compared with the benefits to be gained. Precisely with 'learning' on the outside, can make the child quickly gained a lot of 'lessons learned'. The most important is how the child can take as much benefit from hanging out there.

Humans are not good who never makes a mistake, but the good is an apology for having made a mistake. Because anyone would ever make a mistake, perhaps intentional or not.

Finally, may our children be children growing up according to our expectations, amen.

Best regards,

Agungichwanto